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What do you do when your loved one says or does something that makes you feel so special and loved?
Note: You must read the first part of the series. Please click here to read the break up part where the post began saying, “Last night, Pialy broke up the relationship with me.” But this post starts with a different tone.
The most extraordinary love story has lots of twists, of course, but doesn’t have anything called break up so far. So, the sweetest relationship in the world which is between me and the queen of my kingdom, Pialy, has been restored. 
To be honest, although I told her that I’d not bother her if she feels that she won’t be happy with me, I was actually praying each and every second so that she comes back to my empty heart. The moment she said goodbye, I felt my heart lost its liveliness. It didn’t stop beating, but it became robotic. It became empty making me speechless, thoughtless, and careless of my own life.
When she told me that she isn’t happy with me anymore, I agreed to leave her. However, that was apparent. I can only stay away of her, but I can never forget her. Even if she is nowhere near me, she is right in the middle of heart.
Still I had to agree with her, because I believe,
“Any conscious and caring lover like me would readily step away once he comes to know that his loved one isn’t happy anymore with me.”
I said this to her. And everything seemed to be over that night.
Continue reading to know what happened then.
Last night, Pialy broke up the relationship with me.
It all started when I shouted out as I couldn’t pass through when she was not giving me enough time and was ignoring me as a whole. I kept asking again and again why she didn’t spend the time with me when she actually could if she wanted to. She got a little bit of time to spend with me. She also told me that she is going to talk to me that night. However, instead, she was busy in doing other things that she wasn’t supposed to do. She was cleaning her aquarium, coloring her hair and all those other stuffs that were wasting the time she kept to spend with me.
But I don’t mean that she can’t spend time coloring her hair. Let’s flash to the back.
Pialy doesn’t get much time to talk to me. She is busy all day in study and her job. When she comes home at night, she is so tired that she can’t manage enough time for me after doing her homeworks and household works. In early days, I used to argue with her for this, but one day I realized that it wasn’t her fault at all. She actually can’t manage time. Whenever she is able to spend time with me, she will do it.
I managed to control myself. I expected that she will talk to me, spend time with me whenever it’s possible.
The most extraordinary moment is when your dearest one comes close to you, isnt it?
Hello everyone! I’m Pialy, and this is the first post written by me on our blog, Pialy and Sajib. In my first, I’d like to share with everyone how our relationship began a year ago. Please read on and post your thoughts at the comment section below.
It’s really interesting that the person I don’t like at first becomes my best friend or gets really close to me at last. Same as Sajib. I didn’t hate him but I didn’t care about him either. He wanted to contact with me and sent me a message but I answered him after few days. He wanted to talk with me but I didn’t answer him very well. But after a while everything was changed. Nothing was familiar to me.
Even after we met each other (not physically, of course), known each other the whole thing about sajib and me was a joke. I used to bother him and make him mad all the time. Now I doubt if he really used to be mad at me. We talked a lot about our family, friends and everything. Every night we couldn’t wait to say to each other what happend at that day. It’s still our daily routine. I used to tease him and call myself Sajib’s wife as a joke. I thought he did not like it but few days later he also stared saying himself my husband and used to act like that. It was like a game to us. Then one day I started thinking, hope it was true; not a game.
One day Sajib called me and said, “would you mind if i say something to you?” Suddenly my heart started pounding so fast. I felt like my whole world stopped for a moment when he said, “Pialy, I love you.”
But something came to my mind. Is it part of that game that we have been playing since four months?
“Ok”, I sighed and hung up the phone. No wonder he was confused and he was thinking, is that a yes or no?
But after few days I didn’t have enough strengthen to keep myself away from Sajib. I was too weak not to think about him.
I failed not to say, “Sajib it’s not my soul aymore. I have already given it to you and I always love you.”
It has been about a year since I and Pialy exchanged our hearts. I don’t remember the exact date, but I’m sure it’s somewhere in January 2009. So, it’s the first anniversary of our love story. (There’s no problem to count the first day of the year as the day our relationship had begun.) Wish us something!
My feeling after a year? Well, I’m sure that the past January was the best month of my life, because that’s when my life started to change.
Throughout the year of 2009, there were lots of troubles, anger, problems, stresses, etc between us. Luckily, none of these unwanted things could defeat the love between us and we somehow managed to overcome them. After a year, I have no reason not to believe that we are simply perfect for each other.
In fact, I believe that we were born to be together and live together. If it wasn’t true, how come we met even though we live in too distance? It’s the trick of God that made us together. My endless respect and thanks to the almighty. At least, he has made my life worth living by giving the heavenly gift, Pialy.
Written by Pialy. Seems like she had written"Crash" before she corrected it. 
I still remember when she sent me her heart map where I noticed my name titled as her crush. While I’m still unsure what heart map is, I just know that she needs to draw her heart on a paper for a particular class in her school. And there was no reason for her to lie in that.
I received the scanned [hard] copy of one of her heart maps in February 20, 2009, more than a month later I actually expressed my love to her.
And the heart map was older than when she had sent it to me.
There were a lot of stuffs written in that paper – heart map – including the name of her favorite teacher, her best friend, etc. In a corner, there was a sentence that reads: “First date – April 25, 08.” Well, she had a boyfriend. That thing made me so sad that I couldn’t talk to her for days. But I still had a hope in my heart looking at the words: “My Crush – Sajib.”
A year hasn’t yet been passed since I saw the heart map. But the belief has grown strong in me that she is mine. And forever, she will remain. If I need to sacrifice anything to have her in my life, I will readily agree to do that. Only I can understand what she is. If I say that she is an angel, I will be wrong. Because she is more than whatever I can term her as.
I apologize for the delay in the post to wish you all a very happy new year with all of your family members, friends, and loved ones.
I want Pialy in my life more than anything else I can think of.
I don’t know what has happened to me lately. I miss her; this is nothing new to my everyday life, but what is new is that I miss her too much these days. I just can’t stop thinking about Pialy for any single moment out of 86,400 moments (seconds) that make a day. The question is, why?
To be honest there is no reason. I mean, it’s just crazy that I think of her even when I’m eating, walking through the street, riding on a bus, completing homework for school, and most strongly, when trying to sleep.
I go to bed, try to hibernate myself along with all of those thinking stuffs in my brain. As usual, I shut down everything except the side that thinks of Pialy. Lights go off. I close my eyes. I wait, to be asleep. But Pialy comes to my mind. I see her each night I close my eyes. It’s like she is not coming into my dreams only, but she’s also behind my eyes. I can see her. I can feel her.
So, when closing off my eyes, I put my hands together in my chest, and think to myself that Pialy is here; right between my chest and hands, although there is no space left between them.
And the result? I get a wonderful night each time I do so. Now I just try, but can’t imagine how I would feel when Pialy, for real, will sleep in my arms.
However, I can say that I will surely stay up late to see her sleeping in my arms. I already know that I’ll be the luckiest one in the world to have her. That sight — Pialy sleeping in my arms — will make me feel that one more time, each night.
I love listening to music, especially those which touch heart with their sweet melody and extraordinary lyrics. I’m also a fan of Bollywood movies and film-musics. When I first heard the song Khuda Jaane from the movie Baachna Ae Haseeno, I wondered and regretted at the same time. I wondered that the meaning of each and every sentence of the song expresses my heart and feeling about Pialy. I regretted why I hadn’t written the lyrics before someone else did.
In this post, I’d like to let you watch my most favorite romantic Hindi song of the year and read the translated lyrics at the same time.
Let’s begin!
I don’t know about other guys in relationships, but I do always think about my lovely girl, Pialy. No matter what I’m doing, Pialy is in my mind each and every moment of my day. Even if my work requires concentration, she always runs through my mind. And, honestly, when I think of her and our future, my work gets better. Believe it or not, I can work or study better when everything is alright between us.
I'm talking to Pialy!
There is a communication gap between me and Pialy. She owns a cell phone, but due to its expensiveness, she hardly uses it. She has to pay for incoming calls on that cell phone, and that’s why she doesn’t use it.
The bad effect of it lies on me. I can’t contact her whenever I wish. I can’t call anytime to the land phone she has in her home. Sometimes I get so sad and need to talk with her for at least some minutes. But I just can’t.
Yesterday morning, she called me from her cell phone. It was my midnight (My timezone is GMT+ 7 where hers is GMT- 6). She usually makes me a call during her midnight. But you know that my time doesn’t match with hers. So, during my midnight, I strongly remember her and want to talk to her so badly.
I don’t remember last time when I talked to her during my midnight. But when she called me yesterday night, it was awesome. She talked to me for about four minutes. You may wonder what awesome is here. But you don’t know my mind. Her sweet voice is enough to make me forget all stresses and refresh my mind and heart.
At that time, again, I feel that I love her; more than any romantic novelist or writer could ever imagine of.
Updated on November 4
Well, this is embarrassing, because I’m late. November 2nd was birthday of my dream girl, Pialy, and she has celebrated it quite well, clearly forgetting about me. She wasn’t supposed to celebrate it because of her job. But she got a day off and so she celebrated it with her friends. That’s ok, but she could at least give me a call or send me an email telling me that she isn’t at her job. Since she totally avoided me the day, by not letting me know about her day off, I realized that she didn’t remember me that day.
I was waiting for this day to send her some gifts by ordering online. Unfortunately, I just couldn’t.
I had been looking for some nice cards and flowers and finally I found some on 30th October. When I prepared the card along with a very good looking chocolate, I noticed my PayPal account access has been limited. PayPal does this for new accounts to be verified via Credit or Debit cards and it takes about 2-3 days to get confirmed and verified. So, as a result, I couldn’t pay and couldn’t send anything, not even a Birthday Greetings Card to Pialy on her birthday.
Can you feel how seriously bad I am feeling? I had been waiting for her birthday since past few months. I wanted to send her something; but was looking for an occasion. Birthday is the best occasion to send gifts and flowers. She loves chocolate; so, I grabbed a great chocolate and was just about to order it. Now, after my failure of sending her something, I just can’t stop blaming myself. Pialy didn’t mind at all for this, but I can’t forgive myself. I should have ordered the gift earlier. If I did, then the payment would have been made before the access has been limited. I feel shame.
However, I sent her an animated greetings online. I emailed her a web link which redirected her to the greetings zone. If you want to take a look at what I’d sent her, just click here.
Here’s a screenshot of the final message:
This message is shown at the end of the animation.
In case you can’t read the message, I’ve highlighted it below:
On the Birthday of the best girl in the world,
I wanna express my wish with lots of love,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY – Dear Angel from up.
I hope she liked it. If she was here, I would have gifted her a lot of things including a bunch of chocolates and ice-creams. But, to the misfortune of my life, she isn’t here.
Everyone does some mistakes that keep him regretting for that again and again. I have done some mistakes too. Fortunately, they won’t have any bad effect on our relationship, I hope. But still I think I missed some great things from my life.
Let’s get to the point. In our early days, we used to flirt, actually. We were so free with each another. I used to share everything of my life with her as well as she used to do so too. I don’t know why, but before our relationship started, I used to think her as mine.
“I love you” was one of the common things we used to say frequently in our early days. Initially, we both were just chilling. But later, I became serious though she didn’t realize it at first.
Proposing a girl is the most difficult thing in every relationship, I think.
Our conversation continued. One day, she asked me if I want to think about future. Do notice, she didn’t tell that she was talking about us. So, I thought she meant my career. I thought that she was asking me if I am planning anything of my career. So, I directly said, “No”.
I couldn’t realize any bit that she was asking if I want to think about our future. So, my direct negative answer must have made her sad. (“I still apologize, Pialy.”)
Few weeks later, when I first realized that she was talking about us, I was just shocked. Oh no, I denied what I was dreaming for! This can’t happen. So, I called her again and again to make her understand that I misunderstood her that time. She later realized that, but still, it would have been a whole lot fun and excitement if I could accept her first.
Can you imagine how will you feel if your dream girl proposes you first?
This thing happened in my time. And, to my mistake, I missed it causing her hurt.
Still I apologize to her, both directly and silently. I really missed something great at the beginning of our relationship.
Moral: Do not answer your girl’s question without being 100% certain about what she is asking.
While creating this blog, we had a plan of writing whatever we wish, especially about different happenings of our lives. Some people might be thinking that this is just a relationship blog. To those who think it like that, I would like to clarify the fact that it is not just a relationship blog. It’s primarily a blog where I write mostly about my relationship with the most beautiful creation of God, Pialy. Notice the word “mostly”. That obviously means we will also write other stuffs related to anything. But I always welcome everyone to stay in touch with us to make this blog lively.
In this post, I will share some beautiful pictures I found on the net while surfing randomly. The pictures are of sleeping moments of animals. I think everyone will like them.
Sajib
Princess Pialy
